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Why Those "Small" Work Annoyances Are Sabotaging Your Success

boundaries self-efficacy Sep 12, 2025

The phrase "death by a thousand paper cuts" exists for a reason.

Those tiny, repetitive frustrations in your workday aren't just minor inconveniences. They're quietly undermining your sense of effectiveness and reinforcing the exhausting belief that nothing ever gets better.

If you're a physician feeling overwhelmed by the accumulation of small problems that never seem to get solved, this might be the most important thing you read today.

The Hidden Cost of "Just Dealing With It"

Think about your last workday. How many times did you encounter something that made you think:

  • "This is so inefficient"
  • "I really need to fix this"
  • "Why does this always happen?"

Now multiply that frustration by every day, every week, every month you've been "just dealing with it."

The real cost isn't just the extra time these problems create. It's the emotional drain, the reinforced helplessness, and the gradual erosion of your belief that you can make meaningful improvements in your work life.

What You Can Control (It's More Than You Think)

While you can't fix broken hospital equipment or overhaul electronic medical records systems, there's a surprising amount within your sphere of influence:

  • Documentation tools that actually work for your workflow
  • Templates and shortcuts that save time instead of creating more work
  • Physical spaces that support rather than stress you
  • Processes you repeat daily that could be streamlined

The key is distinguishing between big systems issues and the problems you can actually solve.

The Socialization Trap

Here's something that might surprise you: You've been conditioned to accept less support than you deserve.

This is especially true for women in medicine, who often work with fewer resources while watching male colleagues receive additional support (like automatic chaperones for procedures, which functionally means extra hands).

Over time, this creates a dangerous internalization:

  • "I should handle everything myself"
  • "Asking for help is weakness"
  • "I don't deserve better systems"

This mindset is keeping you stuck in unnecessary frustration.

How to Break the Cycle

Start impossibly small. When you catch yourself typing something you know you'll use again, take 30 seconds to save it as a template. When you notice a workflow that consistently slows you down, spend 10 minutes mapping out a better approach.

Expect initial discomfort. Teaching others to help you, updating systems, and advocating for better resources requires activation energy. But this temporary investment pays dividends in time, energy, and peace of mind.

Celebrate every win. When you fix something and think "That's so much better," let yourself feel that satisfaction. You're proving that you ARE effective and DO deserve to have things work smoothly.

Your Next Move

Choose one nagging problem that's been bothering you for weeks or months. Calculate what it's really costing you in time, energy, and frustration. Then schedule 15 minutes this week to address it.

Remember: These small changes compound. Each problem you solve builds momentum and reinforces your ability to improve your situation.

You're more capable than you realize. Your time and energy matter. You deserve systems that support your success, not sabotage it.

Ready to reclaim your time and energy? Listen to this week's episode where I walk through exactly how to identify and tackle the problems that are within your control.

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The small changes you make today become the foundation for the career satisfaction you're seeking. Start with one nagging problem. Your future self will thank you.

Hi There!

I'm Megan. I'm a Physician and a Life Coach and a Mom. I created this blog to help other Physicians and Physician-Moms learn more about why they feel exhausted, burned-out and overwhelmed, and how to start to make changes. I hope that you enjoy what you read, and that it helps you along your journey. And hey, if you want to talk about coaching with me, I'm here for that too! I offer a free 1:1 call to see if we are a good fit. Click the button below to register today.

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